Communication
Have you ever been really feeling someone, and then all of a sudden their convo just start getting dry as ya Auntie cooking. ( The one you don’t eat from cause she gave ya whole family food poisoning on Christmas.) So I’m finally at a point where I stop trying to force conversation. If we’re talking and the conversation goes dry....it’s just dead for me. I’m all for comfortable silence, but I’m not for a one sided conversation. This isn’t even just for relationships or entanglements. This is for friendships as well. I recently had a very entertaining Black is King night with my inner circle where we all talked about various subjects, but the one thing I realized is that I never had to watch what I said. This is another thing we discussed. The older I’ve gotten the less tolerant I’ve become. When I was younger I had several different friend groups, and I couldn’t truly be myself in any of them. For instance I had friends who always wanted to tell me about their sex life, but ...